User blog:Nathan1123/SLoaCM 2: The Aftermath, or "For the love of God, make this stop"

Hello,

I dispense with formalities, as this will probably not reach the RADAR of people who should be reading it anyway.

As I said in my last blog post, a lot of my time is being taken up 90% of the time with myriads of people seeking my help for their emotional distress. First, I want to iterate that, even after all this time, my love for all and my desire to see people conquer their demons has not diminished. I will always be here as a paraclete for anyone who needs it at any time.

In fact, most of the frustration of this post is not to do with people who need help at all, rather the opposite. Now it seems my time is entirely taken up by people after I helped them. Now, my time on Discord is a constant discussion with people on every single detail of their lives, both the good and ill. Every tiny nuance of their daily activities are run by me in private messages, asking for my constant opinion or approval.

Look, I am very flattered you want my opinion on the daily activities you do with your lives. I am so happy I get to make that kind of impact on people. Also, I am very proud to see how much you all have grown since we first met. Rather than dwelling on your problems or fears as before, you have become a valuable member of the community.

However, I am only human. If my entire free time is taken up exclusively with talking through your life, I will never be able to live my life. As it is, I have missed out on a lot of stuff this year because so much of my time is sucked into these small talks that last hours at a time. The only way I can get things done has been to not open the app for extended periods at all, and even then I can expect to be greeted later on with the message ''Where have you bean??!! ''

Again, I'm not saying I don't want to hear your issues or concerns. At the end of it all, everything you all do warms my heart. What I can't stand is the endless volume of discussion that takes up so many hours with little to no break in between. Just, is it so much to ask you tone it down? Oh, I didn't mean to push that button! † Oh, well leave a message I guess  00:46, October 9, 2017 (UTC)